May 7, 1931, Joe and Ethel chapman welcomed little Roe Leecie Chapman into the family. Two older sisters and brother preceded Leecie and two sisters followed her. She became Joe’s long-legged Sally. She was the tallest of the six inheriting her height from Joe. All the others were short like Ethel.
Leecie
would be Joe’s second son wearing overalls and work shoes working alongside of
her brother doing chores around the farm. Everyday Leecie would wrestle her
brother holding him to the ground until he yelled “calf rope.” She worked and fought like a man. She could
plow a mule, drive a tractor, and split firewood.
Leecie
hated school. She went to the seventh grade before quitting to pick cotton and to
work as a hired hand doing the chores of maintaining a farm. She worked hard
her entire life. Even though she worked long and hard she never had much money,
but she married and had four children which she said made her rich.
She
married Mitchell Clark Hopper Jr. on February 4, 1950. He was seven years her
senior. Folks called him J M for Junior Mitchell. Where Leecie never ventured far
from Chilton County Alabama. J M had traveled to North Africa and Italy with
the United States Army. J M would take Leecie to live in Illinois when Leecie
was in her mid-twenties returning to rural Alabama in March 1960.
In
1969 she went to work outside the home to help support the family. In 1982 doctors
diagnosed J M with two brain tumors. Leecie worked and cared from him until his
death May 27, 1984. Leecie had a mole on her back that was melanoma cancer.
Doctors removed the mole and diseased tissue down to her spine. She never
allowed the pain to prevent her from caring for J M.
Losing
J M was devastating for Leecie. One to never quit, she seemed give up living.
By brothers and sister encouraged, but she grew discouraged and had aliments
that doctors could not diagnose.
One
Saturday I went to eat Saturday breakfast with her. Sneaking up behind her I
squeezed her. She said, “You broke my ribs.” I told her that I did squeeze that
hard. Doctors were shocked when they x-rayed her. I had collapsed her right rib
cage. Cancer had swept through her body ravishing her rib cages, number four vertebrae,
esophagus, right arm between elbow and shoulder. And multiple other parts of
her body. Stage four melanoma had riddled her precious body.
Mom
had gone with me to hear me preach in September 1986 just before I “bear hugged”
her. When they operated on her right rib cage, they said she had six months to
a year to live. She had some issues around Thanksgiving and doctors said she had
three to six months to live. At Christmas doctors said she had days.
When
mom was bedridden, my sister was a trooper and wonderful taking care of her. My
sister spent the week with her while my two brothers and I spent the weekend
from Friday evening until Monday morning. Mom spent most of time in a hospital
bed in my brothers and my old bedroom.
One
Saturday morning I was aggravating momma and told her to get out of bed and “fix”
me some biscuits. Hers were the best. Grabbing the triangular bar above he bed
she struggled tiring to sit up. She had lost strength on her right arm. It
broke my heart to see her try her best and she could not.
She
looked in the eye and said, “Bobby I know when you are lying. Tell me how much
time I have.” With tears swelling in my eyes I said, “Days.” She said, “I
thought so.” She then asked, “Why us?” I asked, “Why not us. If you could give
your cancer to someone, who would you give it.” She said, “I wouldn’t give this
curse to anyone.” I said, “God allowed you to have it because He knows you.”
For
the next few moments momma said that the only thing she wanted in life was to
have a Christian family. God blessed me with a pastor son, two deacon sons, and
a daughter Sunday School teacher. I am ready to go.
Mom
went to be with the Lord on January 28, 1987.
Watch
ye, stand fast in the faith, quit you like men, be strong. I Corinthians 16:13
KJV
Therefore
I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions,
in distresses for Christ's sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong. II
Corinthians 12:10 KJV
