I do not remember the first time I ate cherries, but I have always loved them. When we lived in Beloit, Illinois, we had a cherry tree in our back yard. I remember mama baking cherry pie for me every day. She worried that cherry pie was my stable meal after school each day. French fries on the side made it a complete meal.
I love
cherries on top of whip cream on top of ice cream. I love cherries straight out
of the bottle. I love dried cherries and fresh cherries. I love cherries baked
in cookies and cherry jell inside tarts. Pear salad is not complete without
cherries. Chocolate covered cherries make parties, get-to-gathers, and weddings
divine.
I once
received a box of Queen Ann chocolate covered cherries as a school Christmas
gift. It was from a poor girl whose family could not afford the required gift.
Momma wanted to know what I received. When I told her that I got a box of
cherries, she was furious. I enjoyed them and to this very day when I see a box
of Queen Anne cherries I think of that fourth grade Christmas party.
I love
cherry Coke. Not that stuff with fake cherry favoring, but the ones from the
soda fountain made with crushed cherries. It is the same for cherry shakes,
malts, or floats. That long-stem cherry on top of a banana split is haven’s
treat.
There are
many kinds of cherries. There are Bing, Black, Maraschino, Montmorency, Morello,
and Queen Anne. When we moved back to Alabama, we had a Black Cherry tree in
the back yard. The cherries were tiny and bitter unlike those in Illinois. I
learned to hate that tree because it was momma’s switch tree used to whip us.
My favorite
cherry is not a fruit but a friend I met while pastor of the Gallion Baptist
Church in Gallion, Alabama. He was the father of a church member. His name was
Robert Milton Cherry. Everyone called him Milton. The son of a preacher, Milton
was one of the Godliest men I have ever known. From 2000 to 2025, I considered him
an older brother and spiritual mentor. My son Aaron called him Pawpaw. Milton’s
grandson was Aaron’s good friend.
Milton was
one of the charter members and deacon of the Fairhaven Baptist Church in
Demopolis, Alabama. He was a retired maintenance man from the Rock Tenn Paper Mill
in Demopolis, former mayor of Linden, Alabama, volunteer with Campers on
Mission, and aera coordinator for Alabama Baptist Disaster Relief and the Bethel
Baptist Association.
Milton and
I spent many hours ministering together on disaster relief deployments. All
deployments were what is termed “Ministry of Inconvenience.” Milton and I were
deployed to Miller, Missouri February snowstorm disaster. GPS was new to us and
found it vital when deployed to disasters. We were to stay at a Baptist
Retreat.
As were neared the facility, the GPS lady
directed us from a major highway to a narrow land road between a pastor. Milton
and I stared at one another. The narrow road got smaller and in the missile of
nowhere the GPS lady said, “You have arrived at your destination.”
It was
dark and snowing. On our left was a shed and one our right a pasture enclosed
with barbed wire. We studied our dilemma and thought we must be staying with
cows for the trip. I told Milton that I thought I saw a sign a few feet behind
us. It was dark and the sign was worn but it was the Baptist Retreat sign.
Miraculously,
Milton turned our disaster relief trailer around and we went up the pasture
road to find a beautiful retreat center. Ms. GPS brought us back way. Situated
on a snow-covered hill, we enjoyed our stay and our work in the fourteen-degree
snow. We were not in Alabama anymore.
We were
deployed again in December to another Missouri snowstorm with our destination
unknown. We were to rendezvous with another Alabama disaster relief team from north
Alabama. Our final destination was St. Joe, Missouri which had an abundance of
snow.
This
deployment a church hosted us. I had fun making Milton laugh by making snow
angels. Milton and the crew make fun of me. As Chaplain for the team I ate
cookies and sipped hot chocolate as the team worked in the snow. One lady gave
me cookies, and I asked her to give them to the team. It did not help my cause.
One
morning in the church life center Milton put his arm around me and told me how
much he appreciated me. I thought it special. I noticed that I received many
smiles that morning before breakfast one the men from north Alabama whispered
to me, “Your friends have pulled a trick on you. You have a sign on your back
that reads, ‘Will work for food.’” I could always count on Milton to make my
day.
I retired
and moved back to Jemison, Alabama. I missed Milton coming by the office. One
day I went to Demopolis to spend some time with Milton. His health was quickly fading.
We shared a few special moments.
At his
funeral I shared with his pastor about the “Will work for food” sign. He shared
it in Milton’s eulogy. It is good to share special moments with friends and smile
when remembering.
A
friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity Proverbs 17:17
KJV
Thanks, Milton, for helping me in the hard moments of my being and loving my articles. This one is for you.
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