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Tuesday, August 19, 2025

Got To Get It Out

Growing up can be painful because life has thorns, splinters, briers, and nettles that find their way into us.  We had a black locust tree that had thorns.  Momma said they were poison.  They were very uncomfortable when they penetrated our skin.  The holes would be sore and usually get infected.  Treatment consisted of Epson Salt, turpentine, and other home remedies. 

In Sunday school were studied about Jesus having a crown of thorns shoved onto his head.  The Hopper boys decided to make one from the black locust and being the inquisitive boys we were placed it on our heads.  It hurt!  We couldn’t imagine the pain that Jesus endured from the thorns much less the crucifixion.

Having had thorns stuck into me, it made the Apostle Paul’s thorn in the flesh more understandable.  He must have had some terrible pin to call it a thorn in the flesh.

We have always handled wood whether it be firewood, lumber, used boards, and pulpwood.  When you work with wood there will be splinters.  You get them in your fingers, in your arms, and other various body parts and you ask, “How did I get a splinter there.”

Left alone splinters fester and make you sore.  One on the worst I had was under a fingernail.  It went so deep that I could not pull it out.  Momma was our general practitioner, and she did most of the doctoring.  The deeper the splinter, the deeper momma dug.  She was very effective in surgical removal of most splinters.

The one under my fingernail was no problem for momma.  She took some fingernail clippers and cut the nail until she recovered the splinter.  It was a relief, but fingernails cut down into the quick hurt too.

A large splinter threaded my skin one day and rather than trying to pull it out the way it went in, momma just pulled it all the way through.  That was sore too.

Cancer is a family trait.  One time my brother David had knots on his head.  Naturally he worried and eventually visited a specialist to see if the knots were cancer.  The doctor was puzzled.  As he biopsied the contents of the knots, he realized it was wooden splinters.  David had a knot head.  He received the splinters where he had carried sheets of plywood on his head while building houses.  We laughed and were relieved.  Daddy always called us knot heads.

Briers protect things that are edible and pretty.  If you grow roses, you grow briers.  My wife Lisa saw these beautiful white roses at an old house place.  She wanted some.  Walking through the rose vines I had my share tiny places oozing droplets of blood.  The vines seem to run forever before I found the main roots.  I dug some, planted them in the front yard and made a trellis for them.  Lisa has the most beautiful brier vines.  Every time I prune them, I get more tiny holes oozing blood droplets.

Last week while mowing the lawn near the trellis, long green briers reached out to grab me.  I dodged them but a wild dewberry brier growing from a fig tree grabbed my left arm.  My arm had a trail of tiny holes and briers.

Wild dewberries and blackberries are a staple fruit in Alabama.  Every rural woman had to have them for making jellies.  When I eat homemade blackberry jelly, it reminds me of the sweat, blood, and red bugs bites I got while harvesting them.  I think that maybe the red bug bites are the worst.

Needles from cactus and bull nettle will prick you too.  One week my baby son Aaron spent the week with his granddaddy Moxley.  He had the time of his life with his Pawpaw except he came home with a red place in the bend of his right arm.

I asked him what happened, and he said he walk by a sticker bush.  I thought is must have been a bull nettle.  His redness worsened and I could not see any visible marks.

Finally, I sat him on the bathroom sink where the sun shined bright.  I took his tiny arm as he held it out straight.  He said it was not hurting.  I took my thumb and index finger and pinched his skin.  I noticed there was something in the bend of his arm.  I asked him did he trust me, and he said he did.  He did not like needles.

I sterilized a sewing needle and penetrated his skin at the end of the bulge.  When I opened it up, a needle longer than an inch slowly slid exited his arm.  I pinched the skin again and the second bulged like the first.

Squeezing the bulge, I could see another object trying to exit the place.  I got a second and then a third.  I knew Aaron was a tough little boy and the three nettle needles roved it.  He was tickled and I was glad that Doctor Momma taught me how to remove thorns, splinters, biers, and needles.  All these evil intrusions if not removed will fester and cause pain.

 

    And lest I should be exalted above measure through the abundance of the revelations, there was given to me a thorn in the flesh, the messenger of Satan to buffet me, lest I should be exalted above measure.  II Corinthians 12:7 KJV

   And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?  Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?  Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye. Matthew 7: 3-5 KJV

And there shall be no more a pricking brier unto the house of Israel, nor any grieving thorn of all that are round about them, that despised them; and they shall know that I am the Lord GOD. Ezekiel 28:24 KJV

Among the bushes they brayed; under the nettle they were gathered together. Job 30:7 KJV

Monday, September 5, 2022

Pivotal Moments

You and I measure time by events.  The writer of Ecclesiastes reminds us of that in Chapter three.  We have those pivotal moments that mark our living in births, deaths, holidays, special events, and tragedies.

Growing up daddy would say on the day you were born icicles were hanging off the house a foot long and we buried your momma’s Grandmoe Crumpton the day before you were born.

One of those pivotal moments came in October 1986.  Momma heard that I would be preaching at the Maplesville Baptist Church.

Mom had worked in the veneer mill in Maplesville thirty-five years earlier.  She wanted to go with me in hope of renewing some old acquaintances.  I hoped that she wanted to hear me preach, but she wanted to meet old friends.

It was rare for mom and dad did not get to hear me preach.  Both died within the first three years of my ministry.  I think the only sermon my dad heard me preach as a pastor was a Father’s Day message at my first church.  Mom heard a few more, but not many.

The trip to Maplesville was fun.  I spent time with mom.  She met a few old friends and for mom, she heard me for the last time.  In my ministry, my sermon has been the last message people heard before they died.  That is an awesome responsibility when standing behind the Sacred Desk.  My preaching what may be the last word from God a person hears.

The following week, I went to see momma on Saturday morning.  She was standing at the place she stood most, behind the kitchen sink washing dishes.  She was looking out the window as I sneaked up behind her.  Momma did a lot of humming and singing while doing dishes and this morning was no different.

I grabbed her from behind, gave her a big bear hug, lifted her from her feet, and turned round and round with her.  When I put her down, she said, “You broke my rib.”  I said, “Momma I did not squeeze you hard enough to break a rib.”

Momma worked hard her whole life and she and dad never had many worldly possessions.  For several years, mom suffered severe pain, but the doctors could never find anything that may have caused the pain.  Mom hurt so bad that she would spend a couple hours after work resting at my sister’s house before taking the thirty-minute drive home.  My sister lived a couple miles from where momma worked.

So, when I hurt mom, I just added to the pain.  After two or three days following my big squeeze, mom went to the doctor.  When Dr. Funderburk, family friend and former parishioner of mine, read the x-ray, he sent mom to a specialist.

A few years earlier mom had a stroke but recovered.  She rehabbed herself.  Later the doctors diagnosed melanoma cancer on her back.  She had successful surgery.  But the pain continued.

I shall never forget the moment when the doctor told me, I was with her when she had surgery following the hug that broke the rib.  The surgeon said, “Your mom is eaten up with cancer.”  He said the rib was not broken, but I collapsed her rib cage on the left, the good one, with the hug.  The other side is completely eaten away.  That was the good news.  The bad news was that cancer riddled her body.  The surgeon said, “Your mom has six months to a year to live.”  That was around Halloween.

Mom had a bad spell around Thanksgiving.  The doctor said, “Your mom has three to six months to live.” Mom was in the hospital at Christmas.  It would our last Christmas with her.  The doctors said, “Your mom has days to live.”

My sister, brothers, and I spent time with mom.  My sister was marvelous staying the week, while my brothers and I did weekends.  On one of my watches, mom was struggling, always the fighter.  Seeing she needed some encouragement, I said, “Come on old woman, get up, and fix me some biscuits.”  I was not ugly or disrespectful, that was the way mom and I picked on each other.  She loved to fix me biscuits and I loved aggravating her. She tried to get off the bed using her good arm; cancer destroyed her right arm, esophagus, number four disk, thigh, and neck among other parts of her diseased body.  After a gallant effort, she fell back in the bed, looked me dead in the eyes, and asked me, “Am I going to make it?  Don’t lie to me.  I know when you lie.  I can see it in your eyes.”

Mom was obvious to how short her time was.  I told what the doctors told me.  I said, “You have days.”  She said, “I thought so.”

She said, “God has blessed me.  He gave me what I wanted.  Christian kids.  I have a preacher, two deacons, and a Sunday School teacher. I never wanted to be rich, famous, or have a lot of stuff.  All I ever wanted in life was Christian children.  God gave them to me.”

Pivotal events came at Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and the start of a New Year.  Twenty-seven days into the New Year momma died.

To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die (Ecclesiastes 3:1-2a KJV)